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How Leaders Buy Time

“Diligence is the mother of good luck.”—Ben Franklin To be successful in tennis, athletes must be able be to play both offense and defense. The same principle applies to business leaders, sales teams, and organizations. In a competitive marketplace where “experts” and “thought leaders” constantly advocate playing aggressive by building your “personal brand’ with a “go-go-go mentality,” it’s easy to lose sight of this little, yet highly effective strategy called defense and changing the pace of the game. Let’s take an example from tennis: If I blast a 120 mph forehand into your backhand corner, you may be tempted to send it back with the same pace. The problem is you won’t have time to “recover” for the next shot and will likely not only lose the point but be exhausted in the process. The better, smarter play would be for you to slice the ball back or simply hit it higher (aka lob) to “buy yourself time,” stay in the point, and eventually turn the momentum around in your favor. The lesson for business leaders is clear: When you feel pushed in a corner or face a real-time crisis, you may be seduced into “reactive mode”—trading offense with offense, trying to match your opponents’ game rather than staying true to your own. Your wiser, stronger move is to play defense by: 🧠 Taking a metaphorical time-out🧠 Pausing before responding🧠 Asking for more time before you make a decision🧠 Neutralizing chaos with a calm, steady hand In his phenomenal bestselling book “Ego is the Enemy,” author Ryan Holiday writes, “Your worst enemy already lives inside you: your ego.” No matter the sport or industry, we all do well to channel our ambition in a way that allows us to successfully play offense or defense when it matters most. René Vidal

Recruit Like a Coach

For CEOs and corporate leaders, Let’s start here. Any “expert” in any industry who tells you that you don’t need talent to achieve excellence or that motivation is over-rated is probably not an expert and likely has no real “industry.” As a 7-time NCAA championship coach at Boise State, Colgate, Mississippi State, McKendree, and business founder who has the good fortune to work with innovative, yet “analysis paralysis” corporate athletes on and off the court, I’ve heard more than my share of BS, over-complicated leadership theories. One of the benefits of coming from and staying active in the sports arena is that the scoreboard never lies, thus simplicity reigns, whereas many entrepreneurs in business have taken Steve Jobs’ “reality distortion theory” far outside the lines of execution reality, leading to repeated failure and frustration. In a recent guest appearance on the Breaking Back Podcast, entitled ‘More Than a Game: René Vidal’s Formula for Transformational Success,” I was asked about my philosophy of recruiting top performers for the purposes of attaining higher and higher levels of excellence. For over 25 years, I have operated from a simple three-step process for championship success: I. Character The legendary UCLA basketball coach John Wooden said, “Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because character is what you really are, and your reputation is merely what others think you are.” When I came across this golden nugget in my 20s, I took it and ran. Whether I’m recruiting the next great tennis player for our program or considering taking on a new corporate client, I look for fundamental values such as: P.S. You can’t teach character, but you can make examples of it. Business Tip: During interviews, be authentic. Show aspects of who you really are. Share your mission, leadership philosophy, and expectations around culture. Introduce prospects to members of your team and debrief the process to ensure you have the right fit. II. Competence This is about skill development and fundamentals. In sports, you want athletes with “zero hitches” in their game. You understand that the ROI on your time spent “trying to fix” poor technique is not worth it in terms of results. It’s the same in business. That’s one of the reasons we have all sorts of personality tests and often rounds and rounds of pre-hiring conversations–to identify “the hitch” in someone’s game. On the tennis court, I’m always looking for players with a track of record of success and sound technique that can be built upon. In the corner office, I align with clients who already have a high-performance mindset, are seeking the winning edge, and are humble and secure enough to partner with a trusted advisor. Business Tip: Know exactly what you are looking for in terms of technical skills, relational leadership capabilities, and upside for professional growth. Clarity will save you time, money, and eventually boost your bottom line exponentially. III. Chemistry If I’m not looking forward to seeing your face every day, you can’t be on my team. Sports, business, or otherwise. Is that blunt enough? Chemistry is all about finding a 360 degree fit. This is where all the pieces come together. Early in my coaching career, I was willing to sacrifice chemistry for competence (talent). Today, I’m a different kind of leader. Culture reigns supreme. It took me a long, long, loooong time to apply Stanford hall of fame coach Dick Gould‘s secret sauce practice of creating “positive learning environments” to my day-to-day leadership approach, yet I’m glad I did nor can I argue with the results. Business Tip: Relationships are an intuitive game. Continually refine your gut instinct and surround yourself with a trusted inner circle. Like character and competence, you need to know what you’re after, but more importantly, you must pay attention to how you feel. Now that you have my 3-step playbook on recruiting top performers to achieve higher and higher levels of success, think about how you can incorporate them into your life and business. Remember, simplicity is the ultimate sophistication in so many ways. René Vidal | CAI Inquiries: Email René Vidal is a 7-time NCAA championship coach at Boise State, Colgate, Mississippi State, and McKendree. Vidal currently serves as head coach at NIU Men’s Tennis, a top 100 ITA program, and founder, leadership strategist at Corporate Athletes International (CAI), a boutique executive coaching firm helping companies attain higher levels of excellence.

Embrace the Struggle

“You don’t learn to walk by following the rules. You learn by doing and by falling over; and it’s because you fall over that you learn to save yourself from falling over.” —Richard Branson We at Huskie men’s tennis are in the thick of our season. Conference play is underway, the most vital part of the year. It’s like tax season and we’re paying our dues every day. As head coach, our 7-7 record is nothing to write home about. Our losses already exceed the 18-6 finish we posted in 2024 and nine matches remain. I would venture to say that our current state is the biggest challenge of my career. Not to brag, but “batting 500” is not the norm for me. Batting 500 may get you in the Baseball of Hall of Fame —in tennis—not so much. Whereas our players are making their share of unforced errors, I’ve made a few mistakes of my own: Yet, every day at practice, the team is happy, including myself. We’re an enthusiastic bunch, poking fun at each other, and working on the things that will move the needle forward. We’re not “dominating” yet I’m having the time of my life. During our struggles, I’ve been tempted to call a mentor or two. You know, get some advice. Yet, I’ve resisted the urge because they don’t know our guys. They’re not “in the room” day-in and day-out. It’s my job to find the way forward. Solutions aren’t found in books. There are no rules. And I’m loving every minute of it. Embrace the struggle, — René Vidal

How to Live a Useful Life with Bestselling Author Derek Sivers | Part 2: The Art of Reframing

This episode of Down 40 Love with René Vidal answers the following questions and more: Top Takeaways from Derek Coach Vidal’s Match Point Reframing is about positive change. Any time a professional sports team hires a new coach, or a company brings on a fresh CEO, the goal is to better shape the narrative, plan, and focus of the organization. As leaders, we are in the reframing business. Our mission is to find the light in dark situations and build a bridge for people who want to create a new picture of success and fulfillment. 4 Keys to Reframing to Win About: Derek Sivers is an author of philosophy and entrepreneurship, known for his surprising quotable insights and pithy succinct writing style. Formerly a musician, programmer, TED speaker, and circus clown, he sold his first company for $22 million and gave all the money to charity. Derek’s books (Useful Not True, How to Live, Hell Yeah or No, Your Music and People, Anything You Want) and newest projects are at his website: sive.rs. René Vidal s a 7-time NCAA championship coach at Boise State, Colgate, Mississippi State, and McKendree. The 2022 GLVC Coach of the Year, Vidal currently serves as head coach at national powerhouse NIU men’s tennis. As creator of the brand Down 40 Love (a metaphor for turning adversity into competitive advantage), Vidal hosts the Down 40 Love Podcast and is the author of Down 40 Love and Execute to Win. Visit www.renevidal.com. Derek Sivers Bookstore Listen or Watch Down 40 Love:

Play with Controlled Aggression

“Having fun is the best measure of success.” Robert Herjavec, The Herjavec Group In tennis, aggression doesn’t mean staring down your opponent, bullying the referee, or making bad line calls. What the elite player wants is CONTROLLED AGGRESSION, which requires an honest effort in three areas: 1. Utilizing your strengths.2. Minimizing your weaknesses.3. Competing your heart out. Aggression is a desperate game, born of fear and insecurity. CONTROLLED AGGRESSION is the way of trust, discipline, and confidence. It’s your serve. Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

Advice from a Sports Parent

“If you ask B-level talent to do an A-level job, they will fail every time.”—Stephen Schwarzman, Blackstone A Taiwanese entrepreneur who also happens to be a college sports parent recently shared with me that he didn’t care so much about the grades his son earned; rather, he encouraged his son to develop two core skills: 1) Communication and2) Being organized As a coach whose mission is to develop leaders on and off the court, these parental lyrics were music to my ears. Here are a few quick drop shots from my Down 40 Love podcast guests that speak directly to the importance of being organized in our lives and work: Action Step: How can you improve your communication and organizational skills this week? Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

How to Live a Useful Life with Bestselling Author Derek Sivers | Part 1: Destroy Limiting Beliefs

This episode of Down 40 Love with René Vidal answers the following questions and more: Top Takeaways from Derek 1. Limiting beliefs feel true but are not actually true. 2. Social realities are presented as absolute realities, but they are not—they’re just norms or beliefs. 3. Problem: People are not really living the life they want because they’re being held back by limiting beliefs that feel real. 4. Solution: Deliberately choose beliefs that serve you well. Coach Vidal’s Match Point Limiting beliefs are lies that people tell themselves. These falsities disempower, disengage, and ultimately distract you from realizing your true potential. As a coach, I come across many athletes who carry heavy, debilitating negative stories: My job is to help athletes and high performers write a better story. Because even if you have evidence that supports your limiting beliefs, the negative story is not useful. We must create a more empowering narrative. About: Derek Sivers is an author of philosophy and entrepreneurship, known for his surprising quotable insights and pithy succinct writing style. Formerly a musician, programmer, TED speaker, and circus clown, he sold his first company for $22 million and gave all the money to charity. Derek’s books (Useful Not True, How to Live, Hell Yeah or No, Your Music and People, Anything You Want) and newest projects are at his website: sive.rs. René Vidal s a 7-time NCAA championship coach at Boise State, Colgate, Mississippi State, and McKendree. The 2022 GLVC Coach of the Year, Vidal currently serves as head coach at national powerhouse NIU men’s tennis. As creator of the brand Down 40 Love (a metaphor for turning adversity into competitive advantage), Vidal hosts the Down 40 Love Podcast and is the author of Down 40 Love and Execute to Win. Visit www.renevidal.com. Derek Sivers Bookstore Additional Resources Related to this Episode: Listen or Watch Down 40 Love:

The Power of Purpose

“Here is the test to find whether your mission on Earth is finished;if you’re alive, it isn’t.” —Richard Bach Purpose means you are doing what you love to do, doing what you’re great at, and achieving what’s most meaningful to you. Without a purpose in life, it’s easy to get sidetracked, lose focus, and “swing at the wrong ball.” Here are three quick drop shots for purpose-driven leadership: 1. Pay attention to what really drives you. 2. Apply your talents to a need in the marketplace. 3. Organize your activities around your purpose. By staying close to your “sweet spot,” you wake up easier, feel lighter, and have more energy. This is the power of purpose. Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

Be a Go-Getter

It’s the difference between leaders who make things happen and followers who just watch what happens. Traits of the Go-Getter: Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

Unleash Your Potential

You don’t get paid for the talent you have. You get paid for the talent you deliver. Taking what you have on the inside and giving it all to the outside, in a way where others benefit from your talent is what we call unleashing your true potential. Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

5 Leadership Traits

Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

Labor Camp Survivor Peter Georgescu on Resilience

In this episode of Down 40 Love, guest Peter Georgescu shares how he went from a Soviet-style labor camp in Romania, to first-class education at Phillips Exeter Academy, Princeton University, and Stanford University, and continued on to Young & Rubicam where he rose through the ranks to become Chairman and CEO. Show Notes: (0-25 minutes) | Peter shares his inspiring journey from Romania to the United States 25:45 | Peter on remaining calm and certain when “down 40 love” 33:15 | Peter’s advice for entrepreneurial success 45:00 | Peter on reinventing yourself with purpose 52:58 | Peter on inequality in America and Conscious Capitalism Peter Georgescu on Business and Life Strategy “Execution without strategy is useless.” “There’s no ability to win consistently without strong strategic ability.” “The world around you changes all the time and you have to change with it.” “Strategy comes from knowledge. You have to understand your environment.” “Strategy is not born out of nothing. It’s born out of an extraordinary amount of discipline, rigorous research, and knowledge.” “Don’t count on your laurels because you’re good at something. Stay ahead of the game.” Peter’s Bestselling Books The Constant Choice: An Everyday Journey from Evil Toward Good Capitalists Arise!: End Economic Inequality, Grow the Middle Class, Heal the Nation The Source of Success: Five Enduring Principles at the Heart of Real Leadership Visit: https://www.petergeorgescu.com/ — René Vidal If you want to take your career to the next level, grab a copy of my new book Down 40 Love here.