RENÉ VIDAL

7-time NCAA championship coach and entrepreneur René Vidal helps leaders and organizations turn adversity into competitive advantage.

Embrace the Struggle

“You don’t learn to walk by following the rules. You learn by doing and by falling over; and it’s because you fall over that you learn to save yourself from falling over.” —Richard Branson We at Huskie men’s tennis are in the thick of our season. Conference play is underway, the most vital part of the year. It’s like tax season and we’re paying our dues every day. As head coach, our 7-7 record is nothing to write home about. Our losses already exceed the 18-6 finish we posted in 2024 and nine matches remain. I would venture to say that our current state is the biggest challenge of my career. Not to brag, but “batting 500” is not the norm for me. Batting 500 may get you in the Baseball of Hall of Fame —in tennis—not so much. Whereas our players are making their share of unforced errors, I’ve made a few mistakes of my own: Yet, every day at practice, the team is happy, including myself. We’re an enthusiastic bunch, poking fun at each other, and working on the things that will move the needle forward. We’re not “dominating” yet I’m having the time of my life. During our struggles, I’ve been tempted to call a mentor or two. You know, get some advice. Yet, I’ve resisted the urge because they don’t know our guys. They’re not “in the room” day-in and day-out. It’s my job to find the way forward. Solutions aren’t found in books. There are no rules. And I’m loving every minute of it. Embrace the struggle, — René Vidal

How to Live a Useful Life with Bestselling Author Derek Sivers | Part 2: The Art of Reframing

This episode of Down 40 Love with René Vidal answers the following questions and more: Top Takeaways from Derek Coach Vidal’s Match Point Reframing is about positive change. Any time a professional sports team hires a new coach, or a company brings on a fresh CEO, the goal is to better shape the narrative, plan, and focus of the organization. As leaders, we are in the reframing business. Our mission is to find the light in dark situations and build a bridge for people who want to create a new picture of success and fulfillment. 4 Keys to Reframing to Win About: Derek Sivers is an author of philosophy and entrepreneurship, known for his surprising quotable insights and pithy succinct writing style. Formerly a musician, programmer, TED speaker, and circus clown, he sold his first company for $22 million and gave all the money to charity. Derek’s books (Useful Not True, How to Live, Hell Yeah or No, Your Music and People, Anything You Want) and newest projects are at his website: sive.rs. René Vidal s a 7-time NCAA championship coach at Boise State, Colgate, Mississippi State, and McKendree. The 2022 GLVC Coach of the Year, Vidal currently serves as head coach at national powerhouse NIU men’s tennis. As creator of the brand Down 40 Love (a metaphor for turning adversity into competitive advantage), Vidal hosts the Down 40 Love Podcast and is the author of Down 40 Love and Execute to Win. Visit www.renevidal.com. Derek Sivers Bookstore Listen or Watch Down 40 Love:

Play with Controlled Aggression

“Having fun is the best measure of success.” Robert Herjavec, The Herjavec Group In tennis, aggression doesn’t mean staring down your opponent, bullying the referee, or making bad line calls. What the elite player wants is CONTROLLED AGGRESSION, which requires an honest effort in three areas: 1. Utilizing your strengths.2. Minimizing your weaknesses.3. Competing your heart out. Aggression is a desperate game, born of fear and insecurity. CONTROLLED AGGRESSION is the way of trust, discipline, and confidence. It’s your serve. Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

Advice from a Sports Parent

“If you ask B-level talent to do an A-level job, they will fail every time.”—Stephen Schwarzman, Blackstone A Taiwanese entrepreneur who also happens to be a college sports parent recently shared with me that he didn’t care so much about the grades his son earned; rather, he encouraged his son to develop two core skills: 1) Communication and2) Being organized As a coach whose mission is to develop leaders on and off the court, these parental lyrics were music to my ears. Here are a few quick drop shots from my Down 40 Love podcast guests that speak directly to the importance of being organized in our lives and work: Action Step: How can you improve your communication and organizational skills this week? Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

How to Live a Useful Life with Bestselling Author Derek Sivers | Part 1: Destroy Limiting Beliefs

This episode of Down 40 Love with René Vidal answers the following questions and more: Top Takeaways from Derek 1. Limiting beliefs feel true but are not actually true. 2. Social realities are presented as absolute realities, but they are not—they’re just norms or beliefs. 3. Problem: People are not really living the life they want because they’re being held back by limiting beliefs that feel real. 4. Solution: Deliberately choose beliefs that serve you well. Coach Vidal’s Match Point Limiting beliefs are lies that people tell themselves. These falsities disempower, disengage, and ultimately distract you from realizing your true potential. As a coach, I come across many athletes who carry heavy, debilitating negative stories: My job is to help athletes and high performers write a better story. Because even if you have evidence that supports your limiting beliefs, the negative story is not useful. We must create a more empowering narrative. About: Derek Sivers is an author of philosophy and entrepreneurship, known for his surprising quotable insights and pithy succinct writing style. Formerly a musician, programmer, TED speaker, and circus clown, he sold his first company for $22 million and gave all the money to charity. Derek’s books (Useful Not True, How to Live, Hell Yeah or No, Your Music and People, Anything You Want) and newest projects are at his website: sive.rs. René Vidal s a 7-time NCAA championship coach at Boise State, Colgate, Mississippi State, and McKendree. The 2022 GLVC Coach of the Year, Vidal currently serves as head coach at national powerhouse NIU men’s tennis. As creator of the brand Down 40 Love (a metaphor for turning adversity into competitive advantage), Vidal hosts the Down 40 Love Podcast and is the author of Down 40 Love and Execute to Win. Visit www.renevidal.com. Derek Sivers Bookstore Additional Resources Related to this Episode: Listen or Watch Down 40 Love:

The Power of Purpose

“Here is the test to find whether your mission on Earth is finished;if you’re alive, it isn’t.” —Richard Bach Purpose means you are doing what you love to do, doing what you’re great at, and achieving what’s most meaningful to you. Without a purpose in life, it’s easy to get sidetracked, lose focus, and “swing at the wrong ball.” Here are three quick drop shots for purpose-driven leadership: 1. Pay attention to what really drives you. 2. Apply your talents to a need in the marketplace. 3. Organize your activities around your purpose. By staying close to your “sweet spot,” you wake up easier, feel lighter, and have more energy. This is the power of purpose. Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

Be a Go-Getter

It’s the difference between leaders who make things happen and followers who just watch what happens. Traits of the Go-Getter: Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

Unleash Your Potential

You don’t get paid for the talent you have. You get paid for the talent you deliver. Taking what you have on the inside and giving it all to the outside, in a way where others benefit from your talent is what we call unleashing your true potential. Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

5 Leadership Traits

Are you ready?…Let’s go! — René Vidal7x NCAA Championship Coach & Author, Down 40 Love Virtual speaking inquiries.

Labor Camp Survivor Peter Georgescu on Resilience

In this episode of Down 40 Love, guest Peter Georgescu shares how he went from a Soviet-style labor camp in Romania, to first-class education at Phillips Exeter Academy, Princeton University, and Stanford University, and continued on to Young & Rubicam where he rose through the ranks to become Chairman and CEO. Show Notes: (0-25 minutes) | Peter shares his inspiring journey from Romania to the United States 25:45 | Peter on remaining calm and certain when “down 40 love” 33:15 | Peter’s advice for entrepreneurial success 45:00 | Peter on reinventing yourself with purpose 52:58 | Peter on inequality in America and Conscious Capitalism Peter Georgescu on Business and Life Strategy “Execution without strategy is useless.” “There’s no ability to win consistently without strong strategic ability.” “The world around you changes all the time and you have to change with it.” “Strategy comes from knowledge. You have to understand your environment.” “Strategy is not born out of nothing. It’s born out of an extraordinary amount of discipline, rigorous research, and knowledge.” “Don’t count on your laurels because you’re good at something. Stay ahead of the game.” Peter’s Bestselling Books The Constant Choice: An Everyday Journey from Evil Toward Good Capitalists Arise!: End Economic Inequality, Grow the Middle Class, Heal the Nation The Source of Success: Five Enduring Principles at the Heart of Real Leadership Visit: https://www.petergeorgescu.com/ — René Vidal If you want to take your career to the next level, grab a copy of my new book Down 40 Love here.

Rod Ray, Wofford Tennis

Coach Vidal on Coffee with Coaches Guest Rod Ray: In this episode of Coffee with Coaches, you will be inspired by guest and author Rod Ray to expand your comfort zone. What I love about our conversation is Rod’s optimism, authenticity, and commitment to being a man for others. Like all of us, Rod continues to face down 40 love situations every day, but he has learned how to turn things around with a smile on his face and a heart to serve. To learn more about Rod Ray, check out his Amazon bestselling book “Hard Comes First” here. –René Vidal Here are a few of Rod’s insights on building resilience and living in the precious present: On Resilience “Resilience is not something you have, or you don’t have. Resilience is a skill that you can acquire.” “If you want to build resilience, then look for hard things. You need to do things outside of your comfort zone all the time.” “Most of the things in life that mean the most to us are things that were challenging.” “I can’t promise that your life’s going to get easier (but if you read my book), you’ll see that your life can get richer.” “Most of my best players have had to go through adversity to become good players.” “I believe in a very powerful, strong, and loving God. I don’t think God creates bad, but I think he can use bad for good.” On Leadership “I’m gonna give you everything I got, and I don’t really want anything in return.” “For our team, it’s not a Rod Ray team; it’s a player team.” “My dad was a great leader and became president of a small college when he was 75 years old. My father didn’t know much about running a college, but he was nice to people and knew how to make hard decisions for an unselfish purpose.” (Listen to Rod speak about his father at Podcast time stamp 6:24) On Legacy “If I’m a stronger person, then I can be a stronger person for other people.” “Let’s do life with an open hand rather than a closed fist.” “I would like my legacy to be that I loved well and believed in others when they didn’t believe in themselves.”

Super Lawyer Jon Vegosen on Culture and Leadership

Jon Vegosen played Division I collegiate tennis at Northwestern, joining the team as a walk-on freshman and earning selection to the All-Big Ten Conference Tennis Team his senior year. Jon was a founding member of Chicago law firm Funkhouser, Vegosen, Liebman, and Dunn; and has been designated as a Leading Lawyer and Super Lawyer in Employment Law for many years. The consummate volunteer leader and servant, Jon has served as Chairperson of the Board, President, & CEO of the United States Tennis Association, Board Member and Vice President of the International Tennis Federation, and since 2015, serves as Chairperson of the Board of the Intercollegiate Tennis Association. Jon has been inducted into four athletic halls of fame: Northwestern University Sports; the ITA; the USTA/Midwest Section; and the Chicago District Tennis Association. In this episode of Down 40 Love, Jon shared many invaluable stories from his illustrious and invaluable advice for anyone who wants to take their lives, careers, and businesses to the next level. Here are a few of Jon’s thoughts on culture. 5 KEYS TO BUILDING A VALUE-DRIVEN CULTURE 1: Create Transparency and Fairness Culture is critical in the workplace because it shapes the environment where employees interact. Culture impacts their behavior and is a factor in overall organizational performance. If there’s a culture of transparency, openness, and fairness, employees will have greater trust, faith, and confidence in the organization. If it’s a closed kind of society, they’re going to have the opposite reaction. 2: Inspire a Sense of Purpose An upbeat and positive workforce culture inspires a sense of purpose, belonging, and teamwork. When employees or teammates are in accord with the mission, goals, and values of the organization, they’re more likely to be engaged, they’re more enthusiastic about the work they’re doing, and they’re more likely to remain with the organization longer. 3: Invite New Ideas When a culture invites new ideas and is open to change, it can make employees feel valued, inspire greater creativity, and result in better performance. 4: Learn by Osmosis When I started working at a law firm, I would regularly be in a partner’s office to discuss a legal matter or research I was asked to do. While I was sitting there, the phone would ring and it would be a client. The calls were on speaker phone and the partner would discuss whatever the client wanted because you want to be responsive. So I received a terrific education by osmosis about how to deal with clients. Those experiences were insightful and invaluable. I’m quite concerned with so many people working remotely these days, learning by osmosis is being utilized less and less. 5: Provide First-Rate Service and Advice Culture is not only important internally, but it’s also important externally—for the organizations, clients, customers, the people that they serve. My approach to serving clients is to be highly responsive to them with a high mission of service. I provide clients with first-rate service and advice. And because I care about them, I help them with things in their personal and business lives that may have absolutely nothing to do with legal issues. It’s my intention to bring joy into their lives.